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2006-02-04 03:10 |
Februray 14 Happy Valentine's Day! [attachment=53440] We celebrate Valentine's Day with the special "sweethearts" in our lives. The day is named in honor of St. Valentine, about whom history has few definite facts.Rumor has it he was a priest during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided single men made better soldiers than "family man" he banned all marriage.Valentine, however, continued to marry young couples in serect. Caught in the act, Valentine was imprisoned and sentenced to death. The daughter of the jailer found him to be kind and tried to save him, unsuccessfully. Just before his execution on February 14th, Valentine sent a farewell note to her. It was signed "From your Valentine."
Tips to Keep your Romance Sparkling Spark up your love life with these quick tips from Liya Lev Oertel, author of "52 Romantic Evenings"
1. Tell each other, "I love you"first thing in the morning and just before you fall asleep.You may get so used to hearing that as the last words of the day,you might not be able to fall asleep unless you hear them.
2. Leave notes for each other with loving messages. Choose frequently seen places, like the fridge or bathroom mirror, or unexpected places, like the briefcase, wallet, or sock drawer. Update the messages every week.
3. If you have kids, arrange a weekly or monthly evening with a babysitter, grandparent, or friend--same time every time--and go out (or stay in ), just the two of you.If only for a few hours, this standing date will be something you can put on your calendar so you can both look forward to it.
4. Make ordinary meals special. Light candles, even if you are sending out for pizza; pour something sparkling into wine glasses; place a flower in a bud vase; Turn off the TV and play some romantic music. Those are all simple, inexpensive, and fast touches that will turn any dinner into a romantic occasion.
5. Take walks together and hold hands, even if you are also pushing a stroller.
6. Dust off all the silky little nothings you have accumulated but probably never wear, and wear them.
7. On little strips of paper write romantic things to do that require little or no preparation; taking a walk, going for a scenic drive, having a picnic, taking a bubble bath, giving each other a massage, dancing in the living room, stargazing, and anything else you think is romantic. Place the strips into a bowl, jar, box, or whatever, labeled Romance Helper. When you feel like doing something romantic but don't know what, just pull out a romantic idea and make a plan of action.
8. Have some daily rituals to bring you together: an hour of watching a favorite program on TV while cuddling on the couch; a daily walk after dinner; eating dinner together every night; and so on. These rituals can involve the kids as well, as with dinner or a walk, for example. You might ask, how is that romantic? Having fun together is romantic, no matter what you might be doing. If you take people who love each other,confine them to a small space, and have them tickle and laugh together,you get closeness, enjoyment, and as an offshoot, romance. |
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